I’m a human being, God dammit. My life has value.
I’m as mad as Hell, and I’m not going to take this anymore.
Things have got to change.
So many moms are losing their children to their abusers. The American Judge’s Association knows it. The National District Attorney’s Association knows it. The National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges know it. The Acting Director from the Office on Violence Against Women, U.S. Department of Justice, Catherine Pierce, knows it. Why in the hell doesn’t someone actually do something about it?
What about Wendy Titelman, Claudine Dombrowski, Danielle Malmquist, Shari Andree, Kristin Hanson, Shirley Riggs and the many, many other moms that have been kept from their children for years, children who are now with their abusers or their mother’s abusers. But more importantly, what about their children? What the hell about the children?
The courts are filled with father’s rights judges, and if a father fights for custody, he generally gets it. Abusive fathers are twice as likely to fight for custody, and 70% of the time they get it. Can you imagine what is it like for a child to be forced to be with their rapist…they are generally drugged into compliance with anti-depressants, etc. to be able to cope. The courts have set up a whole cottage industry over the corruption, which feeds the corrupt family law lawyers, custody evaluators, mediators, co-parenting counselors, and all your associated Whores of the Court.
Why did President Obama have a Father’s Day function at the White House? Did he forget we have a Mother’s Day too, or is it another bow to the father’s rights/abuser’s lobby in this country. Why does he support fatherhood? Shouldn’t he be supporting parenthood? Or are mothers just walking wombs to him? Why would President Obama have a relationship with father’s rights lawyer Jeffery Leving, who was making excuses for fathers murdering families? I listen to Jeffery Leving’s dad’s rights commercials on WBBM AM-780 in Chicago every night as I go to sleep in my vehicle. I feel sick as I wonder if I will have enough food to make it though the week. Then I think of my own children I have not seen in a long, long time…they are with my abuser. The abuser that takes a chunk of my pay, even though he makes much more than I do. I worked hard to put myself through college, served in the military for almost eight years. And I am left to sleep in my car. And listen to Jeffery Leving’s commercials every night. Thanks to America’s family courts.
I’m as mad as hell, and I’m not going to take this anymore!
Mr. President, if you want to talk about what is really going on with family courts, email me at rightsformothers@gmail.com and I will get on the next train to DC to discuss with you. You need to listen to moms too.





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I’m mad as hell==if hell hath no fury as a woman scorn==the fury of hell is really running rampant in the USA with all the protective parents and kids whose rights have been violated,
You are so right Let get woman and children the rights of a human being.
Comment by defend — August 26, 2009 @ 8:57 pm
I hope you are invited and go to D.C. Some responsible people need to know. And- while Obama and you are at it- what about cross-border compliance ??? I went and yelled in 2 languages- in English- my dog started barking- in French- a passing skunk (stealing from dog dish) got startled and sprayed.So- I’m sitting here with a sore throat breathing putrid air and hoping SOMEONE hears.Maybe I should send the skunk ?
Comment by Cold North Wind — August 26, 2009 @ 9:34 pm
Remember Judge Bushelman from Kenton County Kentucky, who awarded a sex offender-rapist/abuser unsupervised visitation with his 6yo daughter? Bushelman jailed the mother; the maternal grandmother got custody, and when the perp came to pick up his daughter (Oct.2007), the Grandmother, Betty Hamilton, shot & killed the perp and herself.
Well, nothing has slowed down Judge Bushelman in our case! She’s in full swing!!!! Aug 5,09, Bushelman not only gave the perp MORE ovrnts, but in court said it’s OK for Perp’s wife to consume her 3-4 glasses of wine/day along with antidepressant RX & for Perp to drink.(8 dui’s-5 convictions). Then while judge sat up there ranting & raving like a lunatic, admitted SHE’S ON ANTIDEPRESSANTS! (Dtr has custody, but, he has grsn more than 50%. It was either agree to the Xtra time, or lose custody.)
8/17/09 Perp’s new wife called 911, DV, guns, he was intoxicated. His “Cop” friends responded to their home in Amelia,OH, AND LET HIM LEAVE THE PREMISES WHILE INTOXICATED, WITH A SHOTGUN, HANDGUN, MY 10yo grsn & his 11yo.friend (to drive 1-1/2hrs away to Lex.KY!!!!! Next day perp took boys to tourist site w/handgun in pocket for “lions & bears”. Grsn stated in rpt to GAL that he was not only afraid of the events, but thot his father was going to shoot & kill both him & his friend when he took them up to a high cliff. The next morning, perp drove fr LEX to N.KY 86-92 mph w/both boys in car, to get grsn to 1st day of school. (PLUS, grsn didn’t have Prescription RX for 2 days). Perp thot enuf to go bk in the house for his guns, but not RX.
On 8/20/09 GAL, Irene Rachlinski, told dtr he voluntarily gave up his visitation beginning that day, until issues regarding perps actions of 8/17-8/19 were resolved. She SAID she filed for an emerg. hearing. Perp not only showed up at school that SAME day, but there was NEVER an EMERG. hearing!! (10/07 Bushelman had NO PROB. having an emerg hearing in less than 24 hr. when grsn called GAL from dtr’s to ask GAL why she lied to the judge. Bushelman vehemently, threatened to take him fr dtr). Because Bushelman’s handwritten orders fr 8/5/09 were so illegible, vague & ambiguous, the school couldn’t let grsn go w/perp. Bushelman took care of that. On 8/26/09, GAL contacted dtr to say there was going to be a ‘conference’ call the next day, 8/27, about the “Emergency Hearing.” When the call came, not only wasn’t the GAL on the line (She was “Sick”), but it wasn’t about an emerg. hearing at all. It was to ensure that Perps visitation was enforced for 8/27 and on. Because the school couldn’t let him take grsn; (the school even had a Boone Cty Sheriff on the premises, probably bec dtr gave them a copy of the 911 police rpt that clearly states about the guns & intoxication) the call was to have dtr drive grsn to perp’s atty. office for drop-off. AND, in 8/27/09 Conference call, BUSHELMAN SAID SHE DOESN’T FEEL THAT GRSN WAS IN DANGER & CON’T PERPS VISITATION, (EVEN THO’ HE’S NOW SLEEPING IN A VACANT HOUSE THAT’S 4 SALE, WITH NO FURNITURE,AND 2 MATTRESSES ON THE FLOOR!!!!!!)
Eve of 8/27, grsn called dtr to please come get him, he was going to ’sneak’ out, CALL JUDGE JUDY, & he wanted to hide in the school from Fri (8/28) til Mon.
Fri, 8/28, dtr tried to get EPO for our grsn in Boone Cty where they live, but Judge Linda Bramlage is a carbon copy of Bushelman in Kenton Cty, with the exact same agenda. They not only let her wait in the cthouse for over 3 hr., but Bramlage called Bushelman, and WOULD NOT issue a protection order! THEN, WE CAME TO FIND OUT THAT SAME DAY (FROM A CALL I PUT IN TO KY REPRESENTATIVES, WHO CALLED MY DTR) THAT BUSHELMAN IS ON THE KENTON COUNTY ADVISORY BOARD OF CASA!!!!
Comment by Lona Consier — August 29, 2009 @ 4:18 pm
Q…Who’s going to D.C. and when?
Comment by Granny for Justice — August 29, 2009 @ 4:43 pm
i WILL, IF SOMEONE WILL ACTUALLY LISTEN TO MOMS INSTEAD OF THE ABUSERS LOBBY.
Comment by justice4mothers — August 30, 2009 @ 3:22 pm
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